Thursday, 11 April 2013

La Condesa

Firstly. I think I should probably have an Austin food blog. Just a whole separate place where I can talk about stuffing my face all over town. I'll look into that. 

Secondly. I'm a little embarrassed to admit this was my first time at La Condesa. It seems to be one of the places to try in Austin, and I've been dying to go for some time now. It worked out for me and my sister in law to meet up with Shay there for lunch the other day, and we were all so impressed with the place. Great food, atmosphere, design, location... what more can you ask for? I got the "pollo rostizado" tacos with a side of avocado, and holy yum. My mouth is literally watering right now while I think about it. Next time I'll have Matthew take me there for date night and one too many margaritas.

Add this one to your list!









Wednesday, 10 April 2013

Advice for bloggers: sponsorship, getting paid for blogging, and the "I blog for me"



It's been a while since I posted an installment of the advice for bloggers series I started up a couple months ago, so I figured it's high time for another one of these bad boys!

Today's topic has been on my mind a lot since reading some negativity over the issue on various different blogs a while back, and really, ever since I started blogging I've seen it crop up every now and then. The whole issue of accepting sponsors, being paid to blog, and/or turning your blog into a business seems to be a touchy one with some people. And I'd like to throw in my two cents. Here we go!

Ladies and gentleman, there are two, maybe three, types of bloggers in this world: bloggers that make money off their blogs (via sponsors/affiliations/ads), bloggers that don't, and I suppose the third type would be those bloggers who want to make money off their blogs, but just aren't quite there yet.

Wow. We're getting off to a great start here! Are you going to tell us anything we didn't already know, Jenni?! 

Well maybe, but I'm just trying to make a point. You (if you are a blogger) will fall into one of those two (or three) categories, and either one is A-OK. Bloggers that don't make money off their blogs tend to blog just for fun or as an outlet for creativity or angst or what have you, or as a journal to keep friends and family up to date on life. Or maybe even to make friends! Blogging can be an excellent way to connect with people. It's just an overall fun hobby. Hooray for that! This first of the two main types may be bloggers with other fulfilling jobs and very busy lives, so they may not have the time or desire or even the talent to invest in blogging professionally. Fun and hobby are the key words for this type.

The other type, the money-makers, may blog for all of those same reasons (though there's often more to it than just what's mentioned above), but have also figured out that, for them, it makes sense to tap into the earning potential of a blog and the voice and influence you work hard to build and maintain. Blogging consistently and in a way that interests, entertains, and adds value to your readers' lives is hard and time consuming work.  It is a part time job, if not a full time job. It comes with responsibility to your readers and to the people paying you to advertise on your site or sending you free stuff. Some of the fun might be taken away and replaced with pressure, but if you thrive off accountability (like I do), this "pressure" may actually make you blog better and harder, if that makes sense. For example, if I'm mopping my floor just for myself and my husband, I'm probably going to do a half ass job. But if someone is paying me cash-money and praise to mop that floor, I'm going to do a reeeal good job, ya feel me?

Now, here's where the problem comes in for some people.  Selling out. Once a blog starts to accept "sponsors," at least in the niche of life and style blogs, the blog does, inevitably, change a bit. The nice clean sidebar is cluttered with ads. Advertorial type posts are now sprinkled in with the content you know and love. Now, instead of seeing 100% original content from that blogger, you're seeing fluff mixed in. Sometimes more fluff than you think there should be, which upsets you! You say to yourself,  "this blog is changing and I miss the way it used to be!"  I've been there, done that.

But then I remember that we're all just men and women doing the very best we can. We're moms, wives, girlfriends, entrepreneurs, working other jobs, juggling friendships and building networks, making ends meet, pursuing passions, struggling, hurting, living life, making mistakes, doing it wrong, doing it right, resonating with some people, not resonating with others.... and it's all OK! IT'S ALL OK!  It's OK to make some money off your blog, if you're willing to accept and take seriously the extra time and responsibility that will come with being accountable to others besides just yourself. It is not selling out to do a sponsor post every now and then, or even a couple times a week, if you have plenty of other good content throughout the week, too. You don't have to rave and lie and carry on about a blog or shop you don't really love, but you can introduce them and say what they're about and let your readers decide if they'd like to follow that blog or buy from that shop. Or you can be really, really picky about who you accept as a sponsor, which is the ideal way to do things. Then people start to trust you and your recommendations, and that's an amazing thing which leads to other amazing things!

Here on SOML, I typically have advertorial type content on Tuesdays and Fridays, and often my outfit posts include courtesy of (c/o) items. But to be honest with you, I do not have enough interesting things to say to post 5 times a week, so if it weren't for my giveaways on Tuedays and sponsor features on Fridays, I wouldn't have posts those days, anyway. So if I can fill those slots with helping to promote others while helping to support myself and justify the time I spend on all blogging related activities, then heck yeah, I'm going to do it! And I figure all you smarty pants out there will appreciate and support that decision and figure out that I won't pin you down and force you to enter my giveaways or read my sponsor features. They are optional posts you can read if you're interested, and they are there so that I can continue this cool gig of blogging my life and also using my blog as a platform to promote my photography business and any other future endeavors.

OK, and one last thing! So often when this topic comes up, I hear people respond by saying "well, I blog for ME!" And that is all well and good, if it's really true. But ask yourself, is it really true? Because if you have readers that you care about and attempt to engage, if you watch your numbers and hope they will grow, if you accept advertising or hope to in the future, if you use your blog as a platform to promote yourself in any way, then you blog for more than just you. Or you should adjust your mentality to a different way of thinking (in my humble opinion). There is absolutely nothing wrong with blogging for your readers as well as yourself. It doesn't mean you're selling out. It means you care about producing content that people will enjoy and relate to, or it means you want to use your time wisely and make some small pittance (money!) for the work you put in and the influence you have in your circle. We bloggers have a voice. Embrace yours. Get paid for it if you want, or do it just for fun if you're not into the business side of things. But whatever you do, don't hold it against someone else if they make a different decision. There are far too many blogs in the sea - if you don't like the direction one is going, there are about 4 billion others out there (give or take) that you can move along to.

Do you have any questions about sponsorships and advertising? Comments? Things you've been dying to get off your chest? Leave your thoughts in the comments so we can all see and respond. If you have any questions, I'll respond in the thread so others can read as well.

Happy Hump Day! :)

Other advice posts:
vol 1: the crazies: they could happen to you
vol. 2: blogging your life
other blogging tips


Tuesday, 9 April 2013

Simply Just Lovely giveaway



Hello my friends! Today I have a giveaway for you from a sweet little Etsy shop called Simply Just Lovely. Erin (who also blogs over here) hand makes these elegant pieces, and she would like to give one of you a $30 credit. That'll buy you any necklace in the shop! Good luck. :)

Monday, 8 April 2013

A fresh, clean slate

Happy Monday everyone, and welcome to my fancy new blog! Well, really it's the same blog it's always been, only it's had a little face lift. Do you likey?? 

I've been in what you might call an on-again off-again blog slump lately. I think it has more to do with outside factors in my life than purely just losing creativity, but this beautiful new blog design feels like a clean slate and an invitation for inspiration and passion and creativity and humor to come storming back into my life. Yeeeah!

So, a few things to note about the new look. 
*there's now a link in my navigation bar to my photography website, if you ever feel like taking a gander. And hiring me. Hiring me would be extra great.
*there's now a subscribe by email option in the sidebar to the left there. Story of My Life, delivered right to your inbox. You're welcome.
*I'm now on the new MySpace, and you probably should be too. It's so, so awesome, but it's hard to get motivated to do much on there when I'd basically be talking to me, myself, and I. So go on over and support Justin Timberlake and make your super cool profile and connect to me (Jenni_ND) and we'll share awesome playlists and ish.
*there's also now some category buttons to the left there, if you're searching for some fairly regular features (food, home, Austin, life+love, etc).
*new buttons down there too, if you want one!

And I think that's about it for now. 

Lastly, I'd just like to give a huuuuuggge shout out to Maiedae and specifically Jenny Highsmith, who designed this lovely new space for me. That girl is some sort of mind reader or something, because she took my desperate requests and the deepest desires of my heart (ok, being dramatic here) and turned them into something absolutely lovely that I just couldn't be happier with. These girls are so incredibly talented and this design company is going places, for sure. So professional and so GOOD at what they do. Rockstars! If you're in the market for a new blog design, hire them. Do it. DO it.

Hope your week gets off to a great start!

Friday, 5 April 2013

After the storm


This week here in Austin we got some serious storms a few days in a row, and after all that water was dumped on us, spring is so officially here. Things are looking incredibly green and new growth and wildflowers are popping up all over the place. I have four photo sessions this weekend, and I'm so excited about how lush things are looking, just in time! Texas sure can be pretty when it wants to be.

...I guess talking about the weather is just a sign that I have nothing else interesting to say, so I better quit while I'm ahead. Here's a few more outfit photos, and today's featured sponsors. Enjoy 'em!




 { Shirt: Zara, Pants: J.Crew, "Cargo Load Army Green Military Jacket" and "City Classified" cheetah flats: c/o Lulu's com (discount code STORYOF for 15% off your order through 4/8), Necklace: F21, Bag: thrifted }


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Head on over to JenEric Generation by Jenny. I recommend it. This girl and her lovely blog are full of personality, the kind that exudes right through the screen. Go here and read a little about the unique concept behind the blog and also learn a little about Jenny and Eric (Jen+Eric). Jenny is one of those bloggers that actually has good things to say. Plus she's gorgeous and has great style. A winning combo!


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One to Nothin' is a blog by MacKensie, a lover of life, style, and music (three things that really shine through her blog!). She loves her dog, cute outfits, and may have a split personality. So pretty much she and I could be best friends. Start here and go get to know her!


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Lauren is the brains behind Pink on the Cheek, a lifestyle, beauty, fashion, and everything in between blog. You can follow Lauren's wedding plans here, see some great DIY posts here (like how to make a blog button!), and see style posts here. Go make friends! :)


Happy weekend...

Thursday, 4 April 2013

Things she told me

I had tears in my eyes as I read your story. I'm so proud of you. I know whatever you want to be, you'll do it. 
I love your humanity, compassion, and insight.  I love you not only because you're my granddaughter, but because you're full of all the qualities I admire most. You have many more great qualities, but those are ones I treasure most. You are a treasure and a real person.

Hugs, 
Grandma Peggy


I've been reading old emails and comments from my Grandma, and this one stood out as possibly the most beautiful thing anyone has ever said to me and something I want to live up to the rest of my life. She wrote this back in 2008, on one of my old blogs that approximately two people read (my mom and my grandma). She has always been one of my biggest supporters. I realize that more fully now, which makes it hurt so much more deeply that she's gone. To lose that kind of light in your life--that kind of person who loves you how you need to be loved and is such a part of your history. It's a giant chasm that no one else can fill. Last night my mom came home from Oregon, and she gave me a bottle of my Grandma's favorite perfume, the one I remember her always smelling like. L'Air du Temps. Fragrances can so powerfully evoke the memory of a person. I pulled off the cap and breathed it in, and then came the tears.

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Do you realize how much your words can mean to someone? The things you say and do, the trail you leave in your life... they are your legacy. You can change the world with them. You can change people, and that's the same thing as changing the world.  Lately I've been more keenly aware of the trail I leave behind me. The things people will remember me by when I'm gone. 

Humanity, compassion, and insight. Powerful words, and I can't tell you how much it means to know she saw those things somewhere in me...



Tuesday, 2 April 2013

Houndstooth Coffee


There's something about a local coffee shop... the way it smells, of course, and there's the hustle and bustle and the people hard at work on laptops or with their noses buried in books or on work meetings or first dates. Coffee shops are my favorite. I have a mind to try every single one in town. 

Each barista enjoys the romance of coffee and loves sharing that passion with guests. That's a line from a Houndstooth Coffee press release I read and liked because I had never thought of coffee as romantic, but now I probably always will. :)

This is a great little spot that truly takes pride in their coffee - even offers public "cupping classes" weekly. It's just past Central Market on North Lamar, if you're in town. Happy Tuesday!